Saturday, 15 November 2008

  • Living la Vida Loco

    Yep, I am still around.  I have thought often about visiting all my old friends on Xanga and maybe posting something.  I have become mostly mindless, which is sad.  I sit most evenings on Facebook and play silly games, and watch silly shows on the telly, because thinking about reality is just not fun.  Right?  Still here I am about to expound on the state of Tricia and other things.

    The economy has taken its toll on most and believe me I know it.  Some funny things happen when life is tough.  Scott and I are spending way more time together as we have started riding together to work to save gas.  We plan and scheme to make our money last and in the effort I feel that we have become more of a team than maybe ever before (yes I ended that sentence with a preposition, throw the grammar book at me).  Of course poverty does sprout the occasional spat, but we find cheap ways to have fun, like dancing in the living room on Friday night to the radio instead of going out and talking, yikes.  We have friends over more for dinner and we go over to friends more for dinner instead of eating out, and that's cool too.  Last weekend we rode with friends to Hot Springs Village, AR and shared a condo for a couple of nights and visited family.  Not Mexico, but still we had fun, and we hit all the free tourist spots, and you know what?  I learned things about Hot Springs I never knew and I have been going there since my childhood.



    You can't read the sign.  This is where Bill Clinton grew up.  Somebody lives there and they haven't kept the place up very well, but hey... I stood in Bill Clinton's front yard where he played as a kid.



    Other than the homeless people (which I might join soon) the springs were awesome.  You can see the steam coming off the water.  It was a beautiful day, around 72 degrees, so the steam is because the water is really hot, God is quite spectacular when you think about things like that.

    I thought of dad this morning, he was so economical.  I really miss him still.  Is that crazy or what?  I guess that never goes away.

    Son communicates mostly by e-mail and IM, but he is still in school, and seems to be somewhat happy with New York... at least that is what he says.  He has decided that he a vegan now, a phase I am sure, but I am glad that he is being health conscious and taking care of his health.  He has lost weight, but he needed to lose a few pounds.  Funny, I am poor and can barely afford food, but I am still quite the butterball.  I can't wait to see him at Christmas, and I think he can't wait to see Texas.



    I really miss that dry sarcasm. I can't imagine where he learned all that from (not me), but he is quite brilliant with the witty banter and the "are you crazy" looks.

    Since my last post, the country elected a new president.  I am praying for our country and our new president.  I am hopeful that the necessary change will indeed happen.  I am confident that good things will happen, as bleak as the post may sound I am actually quite optimistic.  My mom shared with me the other evening stories from her childhood during The Great Depression, she says she doesn't really remember being poor, even though she had to live with aunts and uncles and other family members.  I think our world needs a wake up call and we are getting it.  We must walk away from this more humble and aware of the needs of others.  We have to learn to let God.  We certainly have to remember to conserve and not be wasteful.  These are things we are learning through this economic crisis and things we will remember, but someday perhaps we will look back on these days fondly, as my mother remembers her childhood, spending evenings with family and having meals with relatives, watching her brothers go off to war so they could send money home and being proud of them. 

    Well, honestly I didn't intend to write so much.  School is great, I am tired when I come home, so I know I am working hard, but I have a wonderful group of kids this year... and I am grateful to have them.  We are taking a field trip to a local university on Monday and the mayor is coming to visit on Friday and then it will be Thanksgiving, yay!

     
    I had to change classrooms this year.  My room has not one single window.  Good thing my kids all have sunny, bright smiles, at least most of the time...of course you can only see the back of their heads, so you will have to take my word for it.

    Hope this post finds you well, and know I love my Xanga family.

    Peace, Love and Energy,
    Tricia


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Comments (27)

  • DanishDoll

    It was nice getting caught up with what's happening in your life. Yes, we can get more economical in many ways if we try. I also grew up poor, but we always had a big garden, and my Mom canned and froze a lot of produce. We also kept chickens and raised  a calf to butcher. My Mom and Dad both got their hunting license each year to help provide meat. My Mom made our clothes, and we didn't eat out or go out for entertainment, but we were happy!  I do hope our new president will have wisdom to make good changes for our country!

  • theprettysister

    It is a positive note to hear from you again. we also have been inviting friends to eat with us or we go to their house. It is tasty food even if it is bean soup!! It is important to keep in mind that God is still in charge and count our many blessings. Have a good week and thanks for checking in here. I have been off on an adventure that leaves me thankful too.


    Smiles to you

  • sez_who_sez_you

    Hey stranger! I enjoyed catching up with you! I hope you'll come back more often! I certainly understand about the economy. It's been tough all around!


    Big Hugs! Tracy

  • Mom4Him

    Well, it's good to hear from you!  Your boy is too cute, I love my boys!    We are honestly loving the new found entertainment (dancing in our socks and eating at home AND at the table) !!  

  • DonnaLou

    Hey, Tricia, thanks for the visit and the kind words about my post.


    RYC: After finished recounting those early memories, the phrase "precious memories" came to me and then I heard the song play in my mind's ear.


    It is so good that you are posting again. I enjoyed reading this post. I think this economic situation, bummer that it is, might just have an upside to it. We've got too caught up in material things, and I think we need to learn or relearn ways to enjoy life without opulence and accumulations. Parents need to help kids learn how to entertain themselves w/o the latest toys and gadgets.


    ~~Blessings, prayers 'n cheers

  • MarkLupton

    Hey Tricia, good seeing you around.  You should look me up on Facebook, I have an account there.

     Some good ideas about saving money on cheap entertainment. I should go visit a local museum or something.

     I would have been tempted to spit in Billy Clintons yard.  lol

     I've been MIA from Xanga too.  Lots of stuff going on but hopefully I'll be able to find more time for it.  And I hope you do too. 

  • forwhomthebelsentolls

    Just for the record: I didn't grow up poor, exactly...but I grew up very miserable...I wouldn't wish my childhood on anyone.

  • xThexGodfatherx

    Tricia,


    Glad you enjoyed your trip and the pics you took too!


    I miss my Dad too, he's been gone just over a year, you are right, it doesn't go away....I know you must miss your Dad....Have a good weekend.....Mike

  • jassmine

    Guess I am way behind Trish but how did you get from doing alright to being poor? None of my business but just wondering. Glad you are finding ways to save I think we all need to have some voluntary simplicity in our lives. God Bless, Judi

  • jassmine

    Why not private message me. Judi

  • speraquodvereor

    Dancing in the living room to the radio? ??  Wow ... you'd better be on birth control.


    Yep, the economy is getting most everyone.  It might be good in the long run, though.  We couldn't go on the way we have been for much longer.


    Be good and take care,


    me

  • dingdongdingbat

    I like that profile picture.


    These hard times just bring back memories of different periods of time during my lfetime.  We weren't very well off when I was growing up but we always had a place to live and food and clothes.  During the first years of our marriage we were always very frugel, either because of Bill still being in college or more babies coming or saving for a house.  Now if we have to go back to that way of life, so be it!


    It looks like you had a fun trip.  I'm glad you were able to enjoy yourself and get to see Bill's house.  It will probably be a museum one day. 


    Let me know if The Boy will be here for Thanksgiving.  I'll try to come up with something besides turkey to feed him.


  • peacenow

    Glad to see you back around.. Stay away from Facebook & silly games! It's nice there are so many ways you've found to be more economical. We all have to do that in these uncertain times. Take good care. peace & smiles

  • Donkey_Guy_10

    Yeah! Xanga is still here!  It ebbs and flows! Good to have you back!

  • MixedUpMale

    I am very glad to see you here and to know that you are okay.  I like Hot Springs.  It's been a while since I was there.

  • forwhomthebelsentolls

    Tricia, how much violence do you see over the years in your school system?  Do you find that during your teaching career, you've had to break up fights, stop kids from being picked on by bullies, etc.?  It occurs me to ask.  I seem to remember there having been a lot of violence in the school, in the streets of the town, in the YMCA, and in my own home, and I was usually the target.  There is something about my face, people just want to punch it.  There is something about my ass, people want to kick it.

  • TheCheshireGrins

    I'm glad to hear that all is well with you! I was wondering where you had gotten to!

  • lorilily

    I haven't been around much either...


    Love the picture of Charles!


    Have a great day!

  • thankee

    Thanks for the update. I was wondering how you are. Take care

  • QweenCat

    *huggles*
    You have no idea how much I've missed you here. Well, facebook's another realm, but here is where it all started
    Anyway, you aren't going to be homeless any time soon, you're too smart for that, and I do hope your son pops in soon, at least he might guide you (and therefore me) as to how to lose weight, although it will need a whole lot of convincing to do on your side, because I hate veggies

  • GrumpyBear54

    Hell I feel your pain in the $$$$ cash flow its tough all over....the only good thing on the North Coast Gas is down to $1.85............good to see a post..............good to see the simple things in life is still fun

  • monicamartinez

    I could use some of that 72 Degree weather right about now! It's chilly.  And your son's "are you crazy" look is hilarious.  I get similar looks from my nephew.  Anyway, for everyone's sake let's hope the economy turns around.

  • Daizy08

    Great post.  I miss being on here daily and visiting everyone.  Those days are gone, sadly.  I just haven't had time.  I have decided to save and get me a lap top so that I can just pop it open and do my thing.  I miss talking to you and everyone!
    Sounds like you are busy with work...hope you and Skootr are well!
    Hugs, and keep me posted...if not here, on Facebook! :)
    Love, Lori

  • QweenCat

    Well, I always post some of my pix without my scarf, but if you didn't notice they're protected posts that only girls can see, heheh.
    I have no clue why it was falling so much, but I've started taking multi-multivitamins and I don't think I can find that shampoo. Using a herbal one these days, and it works just fine. Having shorter hair has its kicks, but I miss my long braid, although I did detest its thinness in the end.
    Clicked some pix of GB just for you. He's a grown up kitty of 7 months already. Quite huge for his age if I may say so.

  • baldmike2004

    Dear Tricia,


    I just saw your profile in comments on another site I read so I thought I'd come over here and say hi.


    I have to share expenses with a roommate (who could bail at any moment) so I am being hit with economic  woes. At least gas is down to only around $2.15 a gallon! Also I'm looking at having another hip replacement operation sometime soon. (HMOs are notoriously slow granting referrals to other doctors outside the system.) But life is good. At least we're active and alive.


    Neat that you and your husband are spending more time together. I know you are usually not positng/visiting so much during the school season. Hope you can drop by my blog in a few days when I post my next PhotoPost, including pix taken in downtown Los Angeles last weekend.


    Take care, and smile more often. (your profile pic)


    Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool

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